Scars are beautiful

To you beautiful warrior,

This publication is certainly not about the glorification of pain and hardship. It is about the rememberance and the honoring of who we were and the journey we took to get to our current selves. It is about perseverance rather than perfection. 

Whilst chatting with my guides, they gently and lovingly pointed out to me that the  most important act of self appreciation and self love I could do is being  proud of myself (and so should you). I should be proud of my battle scars because they show how strong of a woman I am. 

I was tempted to write "how strong I had been" but I will rather say how "strong I am". Because strength is a mindset that once aquired, no one or nothing can take away from you. Some of us simply forget how strong and beautiful we are.

Whether I succeed or fail  I am unafraid as I know that in me lie the strength and colletaral qualities necessary to start over. Pain is not my adversary. Pain is my mentor. Just with this mindset I know that "failure" as constructed by man is impossible to occur. It's not "failure",  but redirection and at best refinement.  

You suvived. I am proud of you. You are beautiful inside and out. Keep thriving. The best is just around the corner.

Joele Hubert.

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